TBH I’m so turned on by sweet and calm sadists.
Like, no matter how much of a brat you are no matter how much you cry and beg and struggle they just smile down at you and stroke your hair and continue doing whatever the fuck they want to do.
As someone who generally is very good at pushing people’s buttons and enjoys winding people up until they react, the person who just ignores it all and continues to completely and openly enjoy my pain and humiliation without feeling the need to so much as raise their voice? Very very hot.
I aspire to be like this
This is SO the kind of sadist I am. Internally, I promise, we all are immensely amused by the person we are teasing and tormenting
Indeed. I don’t look the type in my daily or when I go to a munch and I don’t want to. I believe domination is sort of an aura. People see that in you. Being loud and aggressive doesn’t make you a sadist nor more than being quiet and timed makes you weak. However, reveling in their look of being denied, finding pleasure hearing the seethe through their teeth as you scratch their flesh, loving the moans they make as they feel the impact of your hand spanking their ass, and ignoring their begging for discipline and release is what is more about. At least for me.
- person of letters
(via oneinthedarkness)